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Luvvie Ajayi Jones

Author | Speaker | Bestselling Book Coach | Professional Troublemaker

4X NYT bestselling author, speaker and entrepreneur writing about all things culture, business, leadership and personal growth.

On Star Struck, Strenuous Season and Slowing Down

Hey LuvvCousin,May has come through and I ran my way through it. This month has been a blur. I dropped my first kidsā€™ book, did a tour, appeared on TV a couple of times, hit the NYT bestselling listā€¦ VICTORY NOTES šŸ™ŒšŸ¾. Grateful and spent!Itā€™s ending on a high note cuz this week, I ended up on a small group Zoom call with Muva Oprah Winfrey to get a sneak peek at the new trailer for the musical adaptation of The Color Purple. Not only did I make her laugh on the call, she complimented my fit...

On Forsaken Standards, Forgotten Serenity and Finding Success

With the first quarter of the year in the rearview mirror, I took last week completely off grid to fill my cup back up and embraced the full, unadulterated glory of recharging. šŸ”‹Weā€™ll talk more about why this matters in a bit, but even if you can give yourself a few hours at a time, get rest scheduled on your calendar. šŸ—“ļøšŸ’¤ With the relentless hustle of everything around us, scheduling downtime is the most boss move we can make. ā³šŸ›Œ Letā€™s jump into whatā€™s on my mind this week. RANT The...

On Powerful Pushback, Protectors and Paths toĀ Prosperity

I have been DEEP into COWBOY CARTER this week and let me tell you from first listen it blew me away - like socks knocked all the way off. šŸ§¦šŸš€The way BeyoncĆ© transcends genre is something worth studying. And I love how she doesnā€™t take for granted the fact that sheā€™s highly regarded because the ways she innovates over and over again is bar none. She deserves EVERY accolade that will come her way. ā­ And Iā€™ve been replaying ā€œPROTECTORā€ over and over again, because ainā€™t it aligned with the inner...

On Simulated Reality, Soulful Relief and SoothingĀ Refreshments

I have been completely unfocused this week. Meanwhile, Iā€™m under all sorts of deadlines (including one big book-related one, but Iā€™ll talk about that in future issues). Letā€™s jump in (because getting this newsletter out this week was truly a feat and I almost ainā€™t make it!) RANT Iā€™m wondering if weā€™re in a simulation.So hear me out (and I'm perfectly sober). What if we are in a simulation?Like how we play šŸŽ® The Sims (Iā€™m a longtime Sims girly), somebody's playing us, and the system has...

On Fraudulent Fame, Fulfilled Feelings and Floral Flourish

Last week, I told you I made Angela Bassett cry. Well, it was at the Leading Women Defined Conference and I was chosen to be one of six people to do a short tribute to her.I had 2 minutes, so I talked about one of my fave on-screen quotes from her: ā€œI am the queen of the most powerful nation in the world and my whole family is gone! Have I not given everything?ā€ šŸ‘‘ And how much it made me feel seen as a Black woman. And then I read the oriki I wrote for her last year, after the Academy Awards...

On Blazing Blazers, Better Bonds and BoldĀ Books

Iā€™ve been in California for this last week and lemme tell you. Being in PST (Pacific Standard Time) has me feeling behind the world. Cuz itā€™s 2 hours behind Chicago, so every morning that Iā€™ve been waking up, it feels like Iā€™ve overslept. šŸ˜“And this last week has been so action packed because I was at one of my fave conferences of the year (Leading Women Defined) that I havenā€™t been able to recap because I just donā€™t know where to start. So Iā€™ve done nothing. I will say this, doe: the iconic...

On Foolish Forms, Finding Fellowship and Feminine Florals

Happy Leap Year Day! Just like that, February is about to be out. That went quick AF and the fact that weā€™re 2 months into this year is blowing my mind. TIME is acting like it stole something so itā€™s hauling ass. šŸƒšŸ¾ā™€ļøšŸ’ØSpeaking of TIME, last week, I was at the TIME Magazine Closers event, and being in that room with those luminaries was A TIME. Sorry. Iā€™m not allowed to say ā€œtimeā€ again in this newsletter issue šŸ˜…šŸ˜…šŸ˜…. I am endlessly grateful to be thought about to be in spaces like that.On this...

On Book Crisis, Bold Convictions and BossĀ Chicks

Hey,Iā€™ve been sharing that this is my year of being committed to my mental health and creating space for new things in my life. One habit that I started in January that has been a game changer for me is putting my phone away an hour before I go to bed and reading books instead of doom scrolling on my phone. šŸ›ļøšŸ“µ Reading is one of my favorite hobbies, and I canā€™t believe how long itā€™s been since I made time to read on a regular basis. So Iā€™m so glad to be back to it. šŸ“–Sometimes, itā€™s a little...

On Cold Callers, Crossroads and Coiffure Cream

Hey there,Iā€™ve spent all week cackling about the fact that folks said Jermaine Dupri showed up at the Usherbowl dressed like "Boss Baby." šŸ’€šŸ’€šŸ’€Likeā€¦ itā€™s been almost 5 days and Iā€™m still unable to can. I CANNOT. The times when I love the internet, itā€™s usually because weā€™ve all gotten together to CLOWN as a collective about some awards show or major event. And lemme tell you: this one was the SUPERBOWL of shenanigans.Whew. Iā€™m still crying laughing and now cannot unsee this. šŸ˜…šŸ˜…šŸ˜…Anywho, letā€™s...

On Costume Controversy, Calculated Confusion and Culture Tags

Hey Reader,This week kicked off with a bang, as I pissed off all the Swifties by pointing out the unavoidable reaches of whiteness when it comes to success. But I stood on business and I said what I said. Itā€™s actually right on time because Black History Month is HERE and itā€™s a leap year and we got one extra day so we gon let folks feel it! šŸ’ŖšŸ¾When I say we wonā€™t shrink, I mean it. The truth often hurts but who said it needed to be palatable to begin with? That brings me to todayā€™s rant: RANT...

On Mediocrity, Moving Forward and Making Dreams Real

I love this time of year. Besides the fact that I really do love the cheer of the holidays, itā€™s also when I do my best assessments and introspection. Itā€™s my reboot season, to think about all that has happened and all that I want to happen, and what I gotta put in place. Iā€™m thinking about how I showed up in this year, what grinded my gears most and what I wanna shift for the coming year. Also, my birthday is a month away (CAPRICORN SEASON SOON COME!!! ā™‘ļøšŸ). As Iā€™m starting to dream, Iā€™m...
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